Dating someone who has had an abortion
I am so glad I was able to get an abortion, but I would not do it again.Chris wanted to talk about it, but more often, we just fought.In my counseling session beforehand, they asked if I wanted a Para Gard IUD put in following the procedure.I had never been offered one before and was like, "Hormone- and hassle-free? " I had this idea that once I ended the pregnancy, I'd be fine.So a girl should choose to keep the kid and to be less concerned about education, a good job, finding a good man for relationship/marriage who has to be also a proper father/husband and eventually end up like many single mothers? LOL @ all the phaggots saying they wouldn't date because she shouldn't have sex if she's not peppered to have a baby. It's in no way a good thing and morally I'm against it but I wasn't part of it so.......dating a woman who has a kid and didn't have an abortion = you see the result (sperm) of another guy before you and you have to put with it without having a direct responsability for it dating a woman who had an abortion = you don't see this result, more freedom, less trouble and it's better for both of you I'll choose number 2 any time One abortion? "It's part of a generational shift." Amanda Kifferly sees the change in her waiting rooms every day as the director of patient advocacy for The Women's Center, which runs clinics in four states."These men care deeply about the women getting an abortion," she says.
" My doctor confirmed the pregnancy on Wednesday, and we made an appointment for that Saturday at Planned Parenthood. Goonies played in the waiting room, and Beyoncé was on the stereo during surgery.
We exchanged numbers, and our first date was at a dog park — I have a Yorkie and he has a boxer. We had been dating only three months when I realized I was pregnant. So I gave her 0 for the procedure, and she disappeared.
That felt terrible — I don't even know if she stayed pregnant.
Even your partner in it has a totally different experience. My grandfather was an obstetrician who was deeply against abortion. Our agreement was "We can kiss other people, but we're sleeping only with each other." It was outrageously complicated. I was on birth control, so I thought I had eaten something bad.
I see now that it's okay for Chris and me to have different feelings about it. The funny thing is that my abortion made me realize that I do want to be a mother. So from a very young age, I was told that abortion is wrong, wrong, wrong. I became a vegan and decided I didn't want to have children because there were too many people on this planet. I think the experience was a lot more emotionally conflicting for her than it was for me. Then I missed my period, but I blamed the stress of finals.