Hook up with an older women
Then the mother asks if I'd like to take a stroll around the hotel resort with a bottle of tequila.
Long story short I went down on her in the resort lobby at 3 am.
Though I'd rather not have to pay, I've gotten accustomed to using free apps for this. Just change your age to 35 on the app so that you will pop up when they search their own age range...doesn't sound like there are many cougars in your area, but you may perk an older woman's interest this way.
Despite being legal, that was too young for me, so I politely finished our conversation and moved on.
When I lived in Japan, age really didn't matter to me at all.
For the most part, it's true that Japanese women age very well, so most of the difference in women from age 20 to 40 was behavioral, not physical.
When an older woman matches with you on Tinder, you can be pretty sure she's not looking to make you her future husband.
Luckily she's cognitive enough to direct me to her and her mother's room.I think I got to her when she really needed some time to figure out single motherhood and dating on her own.She really wanted me to assume the father figure, just because I can be paternal doesn't mean I want kids.There's also a weird social stigma in Japan where single women over 25 are seen to be spoiled and undesirable for marriage.They even refer to women over 25 as "Christmas cakes," which is a reference to the fact that Christmas cakes are on clearance sale after December 25th.