Red flags for dating a man
There are still men who think yanking their pants to their ankles, giving a quick lick to each nipple, a grab of the crotch and a swift sword fight with the sweet vagina is mind-blowing. He will make a lover for a lifetime because it isn’t about his penis, it’s about you.
Oh, and if he can’t talk about sex and his fantasies with ease, or he giggles like a 12-year-old when he says “vagina” or “penis,” he has no clue how to make love.
The inability to keep a clean home and care for his belongings, speaks to the lack of control he has over his mind. Xavier Sotomayor/Unsplash If a man leaves you when you are trying to express yourself, or the conversation gets uncomfortable and heated—he doesn’t know how to cope properly. If he physically runs away, he abandons his heart too. If a man cannot express his love for you, he does not love himself.
This is a strong sign you are ready to look in the mirror and do your work. I hope you take time to look inside and become aware.
It is unacceptable when the contents of his closet no longer live on hangers, empty food packages are laying around the house or under the couch, and you need a hazmat suit to go into the bathroom. He has to decide to take the reins of the wild stallion that is his mind, and when and if he does, it is a beautiful thing.
If you ever live together, you will be his maid and you will resent him. When a man keeps clean, it is equivalent to a full day of foreplay. Someone who leaves, is not the someone you want to rely on when you really need them to show up.
Through experience, I’ve learned what I am willing to accept and what I’m not.
On paper, it appears these actions and behaviors are changeable, but it’s not that easy.