Single pastor dating
Maybe that is our way of "testing the waters" to see if someone we are sincerely interested in is interested in us.
In most cases the motives for flirting are not that pure. We want to be seen as attractive, desirable, funny, or countless other adjectives that somehow make us feel like a more valued person.
Ask close friends to critique how you relate with the opposite gender.
Repent for any desires that have become more important than Christ.
It is a legitimate danger and area of vulnerability.
That is one reason scripture advises that the older women counsel the younger women and the older men counsel the younger men. It also guards our hearts, our minds, and our hormones.
Everyone seems to see what I don't, my family, his family, his church, him and I'm like "oh no, not me." He isn't my ideal physically attractive man but I'm attracted to his annointing.If flirting is an issue for you, ask God to remove any selfish agenda. Draw close to Him so that His light can remove your dark places. Desires for love, intimacy, and companionship are beautiful blessings, but horrible idols. If Christ sits on the throne of your heart your desires for and relations with the opposite gender will begin to move in a more Christ-centered direction. Christ will begin to meet your deepest longings so that you can give serve others and not need anything from them.You will begin to see them as Christian brothers and sisters who belong to our heavenly Father.