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Me and my Ex H have been separated for 4 months now and we are both dating.
It was over between us long before we decided to separate as well. A few weeks ago my wife asked if she could take the kids to see friends between Christmas and New Years.Although he wasn't yet divorced, I justified the relationship as not being adultery because "seperated for one year is as good as divorced." WRONG! What I struggle with is how I have gone from a 17-year functioning marriage to being single in 3-4 months and still be happy.When the divorce papers were finally filed, I learned that even the process of divorce, long after the relationship is over, can drag a man through the horrible emotions that he went through when seperating. (sarcasm) He's now remarried to someone who wasn't a part of a terrible time in his life. I keep thinking that I should be miserable and hate my wife. I worry about her finding out that I have had a few dinner dates. I went to a party last night and didnt take a date. At first I said yes to see what she would sayher comment was great I hope you have a good time you deserve it.Like I said, though, it will all depend on you and where you stand emotionally.BTW, my second wife and I are currently separated, and I am in no rush to start dating at this point. The decision is ultimately up to you and how comfortable you are with hearing about your estranged spouse seeing someone else.